1. She prays before her feet hit the floor in the morning. An uncommon woman knows she needs to get spiritually connected to her source of power before she starts her day.
2. She keeps her home clean and smelling good at all times. An uncommon woman understands that her home is a reflection of who she is. She also understands that cleanliness is next to Godliness and it's difficult to focus and function in clutter.
3. She keeps her car clean. An uncommon woman knows that the material things in her life are a gift and a privilege to have--so she takes care of them.
4. She takes pride in her image. An uncommon woman makes sure she is at her best at all times. Have you ever heard the saying, "don't judge a book by its cover"? well, try going to an interview to get a job in some old sweats and a t-shirt that you cleaned your house in and see how well you are received. The fact is, people do judge books by their cover...so why not dress it up?
5. She only speaks to empower others-- never to tear them down. An uncommon woman knows that she has the power to build someone else's confidence up in an instant, with her words. She also knows she has the power to literally destroy someone else's self image and confidence in an instant with her words--but she never exercises that power.
6. She does not entertain the negative thoughts that come to her in her mind. An uncommon woman knows she has the power to think on whatever she wants. She does not entertain the thoughts that go up against her destiny.
7. She works out at least 3-5 times a week. An uncommon woman knows that if she is not strong in her physical body, it will be hard to be strong mentally. She knows that her body is her temple and it must be taken care of.
8. She eats more food that grows on trees and out of the ground than man made boxed foods. An uncommon woman knows her health is her wealth so she nourishes her body often with the food that God handmade Himself!
9. She pays her bills on time. An uncommon woman understands her necessities comes before her wants and she does not go shopping with the money she owes to the companies that are providing a service to her.
10. She keeps her credit score high. An uncommon woman knows that her credit shows her credibility in the world. An uncommon woman knows she has a great Call on her life and understands that it can be challenging to move forward in life without having good standing credit with her creditors.
11. She has a savings account. An uncommon woman does not just think in the "right now" but she plans and prepares for her future so she builds her wealth over time.
12. She gives her money away. An uncommon woman knows that she is blessed to be a blessing. She understands that money is simply energy and energy needs to move. If money does not move it does not grow, and she understand that. Every time she makes money she gives some, spends some and saves some.
13. She in not the smartest person in her circle of influence. An uncommon woman knows that in order to be the woman God is calling her to be she needs mentorship. She understands that no one makes a great impact in the world without the leadership and guidance of someone who has gone before her.
14. She is always increasing her value. An uncommon woman knows that she has unlimited potential and she exercises her ability to learn new things that add to her as a woman.
What habits do you have that help you stay in alignment with your destiny? Comment below, I want to hear from you!
My husband and I were sitting in our kitchen the other day and I was sharing with him how happy I am that I got started. Got started what? Believing in myself. For many years I was waiting to be "ready" or "perfect". I didn't want to put myself "out there" and look like a fool... until I got so sick and tired of fighting my calling. It would literally pain my body not to do what I'm called to do. But for many years I held back, until finally I decided to fall in love with myself and become my own best friend, and I started seeing myself the way God sees me. That's what I want for you. I want you to get to know who you are... embrace who you are... love who you are... share with the world who you are...!
Even with all my flaws and mistakes I was featured in an AMAZING Magazine called Cotton Candy Girls. When you believe in yourself and share who you are with the world, the world responds to your actions. Get started NOW! There is someone waiting for you to define who you are and begin to share it with the world.
So, who are you?
Many of us walk through life not really knowing who we are. We wear the labels that our teachers, parents and friends have given us. Very few people take the time to get to know who they really are. Getting to know who you are is not a one-time event, it’s a lifelong journey. We are constantly changing and growing. Instead of always keeping abreast of the latest gadgets, tablets and phones, we need to more importantly keep abreast of ourselves, constantly getting to know who we are. I want you to think about the way you think about your life, yourself and the world in general. More than likely your beliefs about yourself and the world are very similar to those of your parents or whoever raised you.
I remember when I was younger I would often hear my mother say, “it’s always something.” If something broke in the house or if she received bad news, the first thing she would say was, “it’s always something!” So when I grew up and moved out on my own, whenever something negative would happen the first thing that I would say was, “it’s always something!” What I later learned was that it is always something, but that “something” is not always a negative thing. So I changed “it’s always something” to mean that there is always something good going on.
Much of who you are today is the sum total of those who raised you. You must understand that just because the people who raised you thought a certain way does not mean that you have to take on their same thought process. Chances are since you’re reading this blog you are the “different” one in your family. You are the one that always thinks differently, sees things differently and handles your life affairs differently. I know that because most of the people that are attracted to me and my body of work are often the ones that are much different than the other people in their family.
I had to realize that even though my mother did an amazing job raising four children on her own, I was different and saw things differently than she did. That’s not always the most enjoyable thing to deal with because it can cause a lot of friction with the people you love and care about the most in this world. Your family.
If you are going to tap into who you really are and live an amazing life, you are going to have to get comfortable being uncomfortable around certain people, and yes, that includes your family members.
So, who are you? What do you really think about yourself and the world?
It’s very easy to get lost in this world with all the commercials, billboards, social media, people and television shows streaming 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. How do we get in touch with who we really are with all of that noise constantly fighting for our attention?
The easiest way to get in touch with who you really are is to not lose yourself in the first place. I believe we lose ourselves little by little and we don’t even notice it most of the time. For instance, say you love when it rains outside. You totally enjoy watching the rain drops run down your window and you enjoy the soothing sound of the raindrops hitting the roof of your house. Now, most people call rainy days “bad” days. I never understood that because without the rain we would have less food to eat and less oxygen to breathe as the rain is what grows our crops and trees. That’s “bad”?!
Anyway, you get on an elevator on a rainy day and someone on the elevator exclaims how “bad” it is outside and your immediate response is, “yes, it’s “bad” out there!” But remember, you love rainy days, yet you just allowed how another person felt about the very thing that you love to change who you are and how you feel in an instant. Without thought you just jumped on the bandwagon with them and agreed that it’s a “bad” day out there. Why do we do things like that? I believe a lot of times we just agree with others so we can avoid being different. It can be very tempting to try to fit in with everyone else to avoid the awkwardness of being different. The only problem with that is when you fit in with everyone else, you never stand out from the crowd and reap the benefits of being who you really are.
Here are some benefits of being who you really are:
~ You are free from the opinions of other people
~ In your business or at your job you can demand a higher pay
~ People in positions of power will seek you out to bless you
~ You don’t have to concern yourself with the latest trends, because you are the trend setter
~ You will more than likely be the “marrying type” (no man wants a woman that looks, talks and acts like everyone else)
~ You are never bored
~ Your friendships are rich and nurturing
~ You get sick less often
~ You have a lot less stress
~ Opportunities will seemingly drop out of the sky into your lap
Why does all this happen? Because as a culture we place a higher value on what’s rare and different.
Have you ever seen a commercial on television for a Bugatti car? Me neither. You have to seek out what is valuable, unusual, rare and one of a kind.
In order to get to know who you really are you have to mentally dig through all the junk that clutters your mind. Think about a filter in a dryer. If you don’t clean the filter, it will get clogged up with lint from your clothes and eventually stop working properly. A friend once told me that his mother washed his clothes all his life when he was growing up and only once he went off to college did he start washing his clothes on his own. He told me that his dryer stopped drying his clothes like it used to, so he began looking around on the dryer to detect anything that would have made it stop working. Finally, he got to the filter and opened it. He was in total disbelief when he saw how much lint was in the filter. He didn’t know he was supposed to clean it, he didn’t even know it was there. After cleaning out the filter he was amazed at how fast his clothes were drying.
The same thing happens with us. If we don’t clean out the junk in our minds, we will never get to know who we really are. The junk can be the things we learned in our childhood that now limit us as an adult. 90% of who you are today is what you were exposed to during your primary years.
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A high school drop-out who had her first child at 18, many would not have given her much chance at a happy and successful life.
But Richardson bucked the odds.
The giant metal sunflower blooming outside Angel Richardson’s shop, Angel’s Cut Upz, is a tip-off to the sunny disposition of its owner and the whimsical homemade goods she sells inside the cozy Main Street boutique.
Richardson’s husband, a welder and metal worker, made the sign she hopes will catch the eye of Main Street drivers whizzing by.
Born and raised in Reisterstown, Richardson recently turned a life-long passion for making things into a business that highlights her talent for recognizing the possibilities in unlikely combinations.
“I’ve always made stuff,” she said at her shop at 227 Main St. “When I was a little kid I’d take tube socks, cut the ends off and make Barbie dresses. I’ve always been creative.”
She began a few years ago peddling hand-made book marks resembling tiny pairs of jeans to shops, while selling hand-made clothing and accessories to friends. (See full story click HERE)
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